Somatic Therapists in San Diego
Discover Your Path to Healing with San Diego Somatic Therapy Services
Brainspotting, Attachment-Focused EMDR, and Mindfulness
We understand that life can sometimes be a bit of a challenge and we want you to know that while it's normal to experience difficulties in various areas of your life, you don't have to go at it alone.
Whether you're looking to heal from past traumas, improve your mental health, live a more mindful existence, or develop healthy relationships, we're here to help.
We have over 25 years of experience combining traditional and integrative approaches, in order to provide the best possible support for our clients.

Somatic Therapy
Brainspotting, Attachment-Focused EMDR, and Mindfulness
Empower Yourself on the Journey to Well-Being
We are dedicated to creating a safe, compassionate and supportive environment where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
Together we will help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself, heal from the past, transform unhealthy patterns and empower you to make positive changes in your life. We are trained and certified in a number of trauma informed therapies including brainspotting, attachment focused EMDR, somatic therapy, mindfulness and more. The healing journey can be challenging especially when dealing with complex trauma, anxiety, depression and other mental health issues. We have found a therapeutic approach that incorporates the mind body connection is key to helping release trauma. This means going beyond traditional talk therapy and exploring where trauma gets stored and stuck in the mind body connection.
We believe that everyone has the ability to heal and grow, and it is our intention to provide you with the tools and support you need to do so.
If you're ready to start your journey toward a happier and healthier life, contact us today to schedule your first appointment today.

What People Have to Say About Authenticity Associates

I employed Kim Ward, Ph.D. and Hilary Stokes, Ph.D. for 8 years and found them to be a dynamic team dedicated to making a positive difference in the world. During that time they developed and managed the Psychology, Spirituality and Fitness Programs at Sanoviv Medical Institute. They demonstrated commitment, integrity and the utmost professionalism. I have great confidence in their capabilities and believe they will be an asset to any individual or organization.

Hilary and Kim bring compassionate clarity and understanding to their clients. Their tools are effective in building relationship bridges and fostering authentic communication. I found their approach to be refreshing and disarming. I would recommend them to anyone seeking improvement in their relationships, personal excellence or health.

I have personally worked with both Kim and Hilary. Their work is effective, straightforward and full of compassion. I recommend them without hesitation.

I have been working with Hilary for almost two years. Our work has changed my life. The tools she employs and her innate sense of knowing exactly what I need are remarkable. Highly Recommend!!!

After having plateaued with my CBT I needed something else to help me with my many problems related to self-confidence, self-perception, emotions management and feelings. I found brain spotting with Dr. Hilary online and thought I would give it a chance. This was 1,5 years ago and she still manages to keep me up levelling my results and help me understand myself better. She is kind, patient, non-judgemental, inclusive and so curious and funny. Really love her work and dedication. She is one of those who really care about her patients. Greetings from Luxembourg, Europe.

I have worked with Dr. Stokes for many years now, and I am always super impressed with her broad knowledge base. She’s super smart, and has so many tools in her toolbox. She’s always calm and patient, and she’s got a good sense of humor - she doesn’t just put up with my quirks, she seems to appreciate them. She is compassionate and has great “therapeutic use of self.” She is always reliable and I’ve referred many people to her. I highly recommend her as a therapist.

Working with Dr. Kim at Authenticity Associates has been life changing. She has helped guide me through different areas of life - family, friends, career, dating. They have so many tools and techniques. If one technique doesn’t resonate, then we try a different approach. It’s actually fun and mind-blowing what you don’t know. I always feel better after each session. Very grateful to be working with such amazing and caring people.

Without hesitation, I wholeheartedly recommend this dynamic duo for anybody wanting to reach their true potential. Kim and Hilary are not only amazing, caring, and effective educators, they possess a rare talent that is inspiring to say the least. Their holistic approach shows you a different perspective in seeking improvement and clarity in all realms of life. From personal/professional, health related issues to purely building relationships, they are wonderful, compassionate coaches who give you the tools which work with quick results!! I am truly grateful for Authenticity Associates for helping me to become the person I strive to be.

Kim Ward and Hilary Stokes are a dynamic, compassionate, and transformative team. They are truly holistic in their approach, and seek to help people find balance and health in all areas of their lives; mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. They customize their approach to uniquely suit each individual to help them make profound breakthroughs in their lives.
Start Your Healing Journey With Our Somatic Therapists
Brainspotting, Attachment-Focused EMDR, and Mindfulness

Brainspotting
Brainspotting is a somatic therapeutic technique developed by Dr. David Grand in 2003.
It is a form of psychotherapy that aims to help individuals to process and resolve traumatic experiences and emotional distress. The theory behind Brainspotting is that trauma and emotional pain are stored in the mind and body.. Brainspotting uses specific eye positions that correlate with unconscious, emotional experiences stored deep within the brain. By focusing on an eye position linked to a distressing issue, individuals can access and release the emotional and physical stress held within that memory. This method reaches parts of the brain that are not typically accessed in traditional talk therapy or most other forms of therapy, allowing for deeper healing. This process can help to release pent-up emotions and resolve traumatic experiences, leading to improved mental health and well-being.
Brainspotting has been used to treat a variety of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, PTSD, phobias, and relationship issues. It has also been effectively used in combination with other forms of therapy such as talk therapy, somatic therapy, internal family systems, and inner child work for a more holistic approach to treatment.
EMDR
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a form of psychotherapy that was developed by Dr. Francine Shapiro in the 1980s. This technique is used to help individuals like yourself process and resolve traumatic experiences and emotional distress.
EMDR therapy is based on the idea that traumatic memories and experiences can become “stuck” in the brain, leading to negative thought patterns and behaviors. During an EMDR session, your therapist uses bilateral stimulation, such as eye movements, tapping, or sounds, to help the client process these experiences. This process can help to release pent-up emotions and resolve traumatic experiences, leading to improved mental health and well-being.
EMDR therapy has been found to be effective in treating a variety of mental health concerns, including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, depression, and phobias. It has also been used to successfully treat a range of physical conditions (such as chronic pain) that are related to psychological stress.
EMDR therapy is typically performed in a series of sessions and is tailored to each individual's specific needs and goals. It is a non-invasive therapy that does not require individuals to relive traumatic experiences in a detailed and explicit manner. This can make it a more accessible and comfortable option for some individuals who may be hesitant to engage in more traditional forms of therapy. Body based or somatic interventions such as EMDR get to heart of trauma stored in physical sensations as well as non verbal and subconscious memories.


Holistic Therapy
Holistic therapy is a form of somatic therapy that considers the whole person – body, mind, spirit, and emotions – in the treatment of mental health and well-being. Unlike more traditional forms of therapy, which may focus on specific symptoms or behaviors, holistic therapy seeks to address the underlying causes of mental health concerns and to promote overall health and well-being.
Holistic therapy may incorporate a variety of approaches, including mindfulness, meditation, yoga, energy psychology, brainspotting, and other complementary therapies. The goal of holistic therapy is to help individuals achieve balance and harmony in all aspects of their lives, and to support the healing process from within.
PTSD Therapy
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that can develop after experiencing a trauma event or series of events. Symptoms of PTSD can include recurring intrusive thoughts or nightmares about the traumatic event, avoidance of reminders of the event, feeling highly sensitive and increased anxiety and irritability.
Trauma informed therapies are designed to help those suffering from trauma and struggling with symptoms of PTSD and developmental trauma. The goal of trauma informed therapy is not only to help reduce symptoms of trauma but also to have people feel safe in their own bodies again, repair broken trust, and reconnect with their innate strength and worth.
Authenticity Associates utilizes a holistic therapy approach that blends somatic therapy techniques and traditional counseling as needed to help heal PTSD.


Trauma Therapy
Trauma informed therapy is a form of therapy that is uniquely tailored to help individuals who have experienced events or circumstances that are so distressing that they feel too overwhelmed to cope. It is rooted in the awareness that healing requires more than talking about and analyzing what happened. It involves working with the body, emotions, and nervous system to release stored survival responses and restore balance. The goal of trauma therapy is to help individuals process and resolve traumatic experiences, and to reduce symptoms such as anxiety, depression, and hypervigilance. Trauma informed therapies are essential on the journey of healing developmental trauma and complex trauma.
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About Our San Diego Somatic Therapists
Whether you are looking to heal trauma, improve your mental health, live mindfully, or create healthy relationships, we can help. We bring more than 25 years of experience applying the best of traditional and integrative approaches.
Our somatic therapy practice specializes in Brainspotting, Mindfulness, and EMDR. Whether you are dealing with an unexpected change, trauma, anxiety, health challenges, relationship stress, depression, or other mental health issues, having a trusted guide on the path can make all the difference. We have found mind-body therapies such as Brainspotting, somatic therapy, EMDR, and mindfulness get to the root of where we get stuck and allow for positive change. Together we will explore what is most important for you to feel better and identify a path of healing. We are committed to creating a space of healing with compassion, warmth, and authenticity. Reaching out for support is a courageous step.
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Hilary Stokes Phd
HIlary Stokes, Ph.D., LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist in California with more than 25 years of clinical experience, specializing in trauma therapy, PTSD treatment, anxiety, depression, and nervous system healing. She holds Master's degrees in Clinical Social Work and Kinesiology and Sports Psychology and a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Psychology with a specialization in Tibetan Buddhist Psychology. Dr. Stokes is extensively trained and certified in brainspotting, EMDR, somatic therapy and other mind body approaches. Her integrative work bridges neuroscience, mindfulness, and holistic psychology to help clients process unresolved trauma, rewire stress patterns, and build emotional resilience.
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Dr. Stokes’ clinical approach is informed by advanced professional training and her own healing journey from complex trauma, which shaped her commitment to therapies that go beyond traditional talk therapy. She has worked in psychiatric hospitals, addiction and PTSD treatment centers, universities, integrative medical facilities, and private practice. As co-developer of the psychology and wellness programming at Sanoviv Medical Institute, she witnessed firsthand the power of integrating mind and body for lasting transformation. Today she helps individuals heal trauma, strengthen emotional regulation and reclaim purpose through brainspotting, EMDR, somatic therapy and mindfulness interventions.

Kim Ward Phd
Kim Ward, Ph.D. holds both a masters and a doctorate in Transpersonal Psychology with a specialization in Tibetan Buddhist Psychology. She brings more than 25 years of experience in trauma recovery, Brainspotting and mind-body transformation. She is extensively trained and certified in Brainspotting, somatic therapy, and trauma-informed approaches. Dr. Ward integrates neuroscience, nervous system regulation and consciousness-based psychology to help individuals process unresolved trauma, shift limiting beliefs, and access greater emotional resilience. Her work focuses on healing at the root, beyond symptom management, through brain-body therapies that create lasting change.
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As co-developer of the psychology and wellness programs at Sanoviv Medical Institute, Dr. Ward brings a uniquely holistic perspective to trauma therapy and personal growth. Her path from corporate leadership into psychology shaped her commitment to helping clients move beyond external success toward embodied fulfillment and emotional freedom. Dr. Ward's expertise combines Brainspotting, emotional intelligence, contemplative psychology and purpose-driven coaching. Drawing from both advanced academic training and lived experience navigating complex family mental health dynamics, she supports clients in transforming stress patterns, reclaiming vitality, and aligning with authentic purpose.
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Trauma Informed Therapy
What is Trauma? Trauma is our response to an experience that is so distressing and frightening that we become overwhelmed and unable to cope effectively. Trauma is not determined by the event or what happened but rather our experience of it. It is deeply personal and results from how our nervous system responded and recovered […]
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Our office is located in Carlsbad, CA 92009. We also do nationwide online therapy sessions.
